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八字看朋友看比肩和劫财。比肩是跟你同类的——真正的知己。劫财也是同类的但跟你抢东西——表面上是朋友实际上是竞争对手。To analyze friendships in Bazi, look at Peer (Bi Jian) and Rob Wealth (Jie Cai). Peer represents those of your kind — true confidants. Rob Wealth is also of your kind but competes with you for resources — a friend on the surface, a rival in reality.
比肩多的人朋友多社交圈子广。但比肩太多变成没有真正的深交——都是泛泛之交。比肩一个刚好的人——有一两个知己就够了。劫财多的人容易遇到塑料友情——平时称兄道弟关键时刻不见了。People with many Peers have wide social circles and many friends. But too many Peers means shallow connections — all acquaintances, no deep bonds. One Peer is just right — one or two true friends are enough. People with many Rob Wealth easily encounter fake friendships — brothers in good times, nowhere to be found in tough times.
比肩在月柱——青年时期交到的好朋友最长久。比肩在日柱——伴侣本身就是你最好的朋友。劫财在时柱——晚年小心被所谓的朋友坑。Peer in the Month Pillar — good friends made in youth last the longest. Peer in the Day Pillar — your partner is your best friend. Rob Wealth in the Hour Pillar — be cautious in later years about being taken advantage of by so-called friends.